The relationship between family cohesion and intimacy in dating relationship: A study based on attachment and exchange theories

Abstract

This study aims at studying the relationship between family cohesion and intimacy in dating relationship among dating couples in Hong Kong. It also examines the gender differential in the relationship in a dataset including 22 pairs of dating partners. Existing researches tend to use attachment theory to explain the relationship. This research examines the relevance of exchange theory to the relationships as well. Comparison of the effect of two theories on the relationship is included in the study. It is expected that attachment has a positive effect on the relationship while exchange factors have negative ones. Results of current study showed the preliminary effects among the variables. Gender differential was found in the relationship. Unexpected findings denoted that the relationship was stronger among male respondents. Results indicated that an indirect effect existed among female and this perhaps due to the intimacy in female can be influenced by many factors. All in all, it is found that exchange theory provides a better explanation for relationship than attachment theory. Additionally, the different nature between family and dating relationship was found. It is suggested that time spent together is essential in romantic relationship. The findings are applicable to related programs such as premarital counseling to raise program effectiveness.